Sunday, January 18, 2009

why do you even bother?

thought of the day is:
"why is there a need to deal with difficult people?"

2 ways to it.
think abt it positively or negatively.

unfortunately, the negative aspects seems to outshine the positive for me right now as i'm penning my thoughts.

"why do you even bother?"
shrugs. don't know.

just simply hate to keep second-guessing people.
sometimes feel i'm better for being a hermit for a while.
just to stay away from situations that catches my attention inevitably.

friendships, relationships, all the same.
both require love and effort.
so how if thats the case?
doesn't anybody strife to upkeep something called unconditional love?
then again, maybe upkeep isnt the correct word.
it's more like, doesn't anybody want to give out and receive unconditional love?
or does everyone simply don't believe in it anymore?

it's not always as simple as everyone thinks, to be the peace-maker.
if everyone can just learn to tolerate each other a bit more,
or to just be a little more thoughtful, kind, considerate, caring, tactful, loving, patient, forgiving, i seriously think the world will be much easier to live in and lives wouldn't have to be significantly shortened.

then again, that's just only my mentality i guess.
technically, the world is a lonely place.
it's me/you against the world.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Never was there a real need to deal with difficult people.

Its a choice, tough one at times, but still a choice. If you find yourself compromising too much to others' fancy, stop.

Its not about being bothered or not. Its sometimes doing both parties a favour by voicing out.

Never mind it be a boyfriend, best friend or sibling, you are not to be taken for granted.

Then again, its quite a virtue to try your best to keep everybody happy, and that is what makes you so beautiful. :)